The new moon also affects the tides of the ocean similarly to the full moon, however, the magickal energy of the new moon is different, with a less chaotic, overwhelming energy.
The new moon is about starting new things, this is then a good time to start a spell that may take multiple steps or will take a long time, like a complex ward etc. It can also be used as a time of reflection, to look back in what happened within the past month and start planning the month ahead of you in regards to spell work and mundane life. I personally use the new moon as a time to journal, both normally and as a form of shadow work, its a reflecting time to look at what I've done, what I want to do in the next month, as well as a time to look within myself and evaluate how I'm feeling both in the present and in the past.
My mental health is a key factor as to why I find it hard to celebrate certain times of the year, either being tired from my own thoughts or from medication that allows my life to be livable. And its things like this that I look at and examine when doing my shadow work due to the things I do with a therapist.
If you don't have motivation to do anything that's okay to, if all you want to do is relax with a cup of tea then you are doing that for yourself and your wellbeing, and as such are reflecting on what you need. You fall naturally into the energy of the moon phases as you become more knowledgeable about them. Spend time to yourself and your energy and you have achieved your goal, relax and reflect.
Blessed Be,
- Spectre


